Saturday, December 14, 2024

TWO BLOG READER SURPRISES TODAY THAT COINCIDENTALLY INVOLED THE SAME PLACE IN ZURICH ONTARIO

 A COLD AND STORMY LAKE HURON WEDNESDAY MORNING
Walking down our darkened hallway last night around 11 something in the sunroom caught my eye.  It was a large rectangular patch of light on the sunroom floor.  I knew instantly that our night sky had cleared because that could only be the big old Moon shining down through our sunroom's skylight.  It was a hopeful sign for a sunny morning and I right away thought to myself, 'Oh my how I sure could use some good old sunshine right about now'.  And, so it came to be today.  With a clear night sky overhead I knew it was going to be a bitterly cold morning and it was as our thermometer dipped to 14F.  Luckily, we did not have a blustery cold wind to drive those low temperatures even lower.  Knowing the day would be sunny, I had written out a list in my little book of things to do this morning and waited until nearly 10 a.m. when I knew a couple of stops along the way would be open.

 FROST CREEPING UP OUR WINDOW PANE THIS MORNING
With Pheebs in the passenger seat, we headed into Bayfield shortly after 10 a.m. with our first stop being at the Bayfield Garage for a gas fill-up.  Across the road, we went from there to pick up some cold and sinus pills for this head and chest cold of mine at Michaels Pharmasave.  I also stopped at the Bayfield Library because I had a few questions to ask of the Librarian.  More about that in a later post.  Our next stop was Bayfield's Tim Hortons for a decaf coffee to go.  

HEADING INTO BAYFIELD EARLIER TODAY AND HEY, HOW ABOUT THOSE SUN SPLASHES ON THE ROAD EH
FROSTY FISHERMEN ON BAYFIELD'S ICY SOUTH PIER
 THE BAYFIELD RIVER IS IN THE PROCESS OF FREEZING OVER AGAIN
 LAST WEEK A HEAVY SNOW LOAD COLLAPSED PART OF BAYFIELD'S CLASSIC ALBION HOTEL ROOF BUT THE HOTEL IS GOING TO BE THANKFULLY RESTORED TO ITS FORMER GLORY AND BEYOND
Before leaving Bayfield we stopped at the Porters Hill Wild Bird Seed Company and loaded up four twenty-pound bags of birdseed.  Steve, the always friendly owner had built himself a new squirrel feeder and asked me if I wanted his old one and I said sure.  It's kind of a twirlygig thing that has a corn cob on one end.  Wishing me 'Merry Christmas' he generously tossed in a big bag of corn cobs as well.  I will mount that squirrely twirler on one of our pine trees.

 A TAD HARD TO IMAGINE BUT THINK OF IT AS AN AIRPLANE PROPELLOR THAT SPINS AROUND AS THE SQUIRREL TRIES TO HANG ON WHILE TRYING TO GET AT THE CORN COB
I POSITIONED THIS ON A PINE TREE I CAN SEE FROM MY LIVING ROOM RECLINER
 AND THIS IS THE BAG OF CORN COBS THAT STEVE THREW IN WITH A HEARTY 'MERRY CHRISTMAS'
From there, Pheebs and headed down the Bronson Line to Zurich.  Nice to be out in the countryside again with large patches of blue sky overhead.  Zurich is the home of Jerry Raders Homestyle Market which I often mention. A few days ago our phone rang and when I looked at the answering machine it said the call was coming from Jerry Raders in Zurich.  What!!  Oh my, I thought, did I forget to pay for something the last time I was there, were they upset I asked for second piece of 'free pie' the last time I was there on a Saturday morning.  I knew I hadn't done that but maybe somebody that looked like me did.  Anyway, off to Jerry Raders we nervously went.  It's not very big inside and anything over half a dozen people constitutes a crowd.  Because of the 'free piece' of pie on Saturday mornings, I think there was about a hundred and ten people in there!!  I managed to track down a frenzied employee, told her my name, and said they had called.  With a Christmas smile spreading across her face she slipped around behind the counter and retrieved a small white envelope with my name on it.  Hmmmmm, I thought as I carefully opened it.  Inside was a gift certificate for........'WOW'  When the staff peeled me off the floor and stood me back up and dusted me off I stood looking at the gift certificate thinking, OMG I'm going to have to buy a freezer on the way home to accommodate all this food because I knew I didn't have enough room in my little fridge freezer to hold 350 butter tarts.  Okay, okay, so I didn't really think about butter tarts...but I could have.  A nice lady explained to me that I didn't have to use the whole amount on the card all at once.  She said just take home what you want today and we'll deduct it from the card and when you are ready for more just come back again.  So, with two chicken pot pies, two cream of chicken soups, 25 butter tarts, a turkey salad sandwich, and a free piece of chocolate pie I precariously balanced everything and headed out to the car.  Okay, okay, so I didn't get the 25 butter tarts.....but I thought about it.  In the car, I shared the turkey salad sandwich with Pheebs but I didn't tell her about the free piece of plastic wrapped chocolate pie I had stuffed into my shirt pocket.  Sooooooo, where did this Jerry Rader gift certificate come from.  I suspected a blog reader and because of a 'quirk' as it turns out, I was right.  Not only was it a blog reader but it turned out to be an old close friend of mine who I knew very well back in the mid-eighties and someone I had not seen since that time way back then although we have been in contact on Facebook.  This person's caring, concern, and generosity, know no bounds............. But then, just a couple hours after getting home, Jerry Rader entered my life once again.  The phone rang (no it was not Jerry Radar's place phoning again) and it was our good neighbor Monica from across the road.  Her daughter Brenda was visiting her and Monica said Brenda had something to bring over.  Minutes later, Brenda walked up the driveway with a box in her hands and I recognized the contents of that box to be from Jerry Raders.  Coincidentally as it turns out, both Brenda and I had been at Jerry Raders this afternoon at the same time.  She said she thought she might have have recognized me getting into a white car.  Brenda had never been to Jerry Raders before but she knew of it from the many times I've mentioned it in my blog.  All of Monica's grown-up kids are long-time blog readers.  So anyway, in the box Brenda was carrying were two Jerry Rader chicken pot pies, a larger beef lasagna, and a larger chicken pie, and by golly, there was another Jerry Rader gift card in the box too.  Holy Smokes I thought....more butter tarts:))  Also, in the box was a Tim Hortons coffee shop card, a sympathy card, and a warm knitted Mennonite-made prayer shawl that Monica had got for Kelly but Kelly was gone before Monica had a chance to give it to her.  Needless to say, I have a well-stocked fridge freezer now but the only way I could get everything in was to eat what was left of a tub of Kelly's chocolate ice cream.  I am one of those people who cannot throw out perfectly good food. 

 PHEEBS AND I SHARING A TURKEY SALAD SANDWICH IN JERRY RADERS PARKING LOT
THE FIRST OF TWO JERRY RADER GIFT CERTIFICATES I RECEIVED TODAY
Al's Music Box:)) Beautiful is a song by Canadian singer-songwriter Gordon Lightfoot. This song, which is in the key of B major, first appeared on Lightfoot's 1972 LP Don Quixote album and was the first of two singles released. The album's title track appeared on the B-side. It reached number 13 in Canada. It peaked at #58 on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100 and #67 on the Cash Box Top 100 in July 1972.  The song also hit number one on the Canadian Adult Contemporary chart, his second of seven to do so, and number 30 on the U.S. Easy Listening chart.

GROANER'S CORNER:(( A sweet grandmother telephoned St. Joseph 's Hospital. She timidly asked,'Is it possible to speak to someone who can tell me how a  patient is doing?'  The operator said, 'I'll be glad to help, dear. What's the name and room number?'  The grandmother, in her weak tremulous voice said, ''Norma Findlay, Room 302.'  The operator replied, 'Let me place you on hold while I check with her nurse.'  After a few minutes the operator returned to the phone and said, 'Oh, I have good news. Her nurse told me that Norma is doing very well.. Her blood pressure is fine; her blood work is normal and her physician, Dr. Cohen, has scheduled her to be discharged on Tuesday.'  The grandmother said, 'Thank you. That's wonderful! I was so worried! God bless you for the good news.'  The operator replied, 'You're more than welcome. Is Norma your daughter?'  The grandmother said, 'No, I'm Norma Findlay in 302. No one tells me squat!!

------------------------------------'

An English fisherman goes to the river to check an illegal fish trap that he owns. He looks around to make sure there are no Fishing Inspectors about and proceeds to pull the fish trap out to check it.  An Inspector steps out of the bushes, “Ahha!” he said and the fisherman spun around and yelled “Oh Crap”. The Inspector, who wasn't expecting such a response said “Settle down, I'm only the Fishing Inspector”. “Thank God for that” said the fisherman, “I thought you were the Sot who owned this fish trap”.

--------------------------------

A father spoke to his son, "It's time we had a little talk, my son. Soon, you will have urges and feelings you've never had before. Your heart will pound & your hands will sweat. You'll be preoccupied and won't be able to think of anything else."  He added, "But don't worry, it's perfectly normal... it's called golf."

-------------------------------------

One day, a man was dragged to the cinema by his wife who wanted to watch a romantic comedy.  Half an hour into the film, the man felt a nudge in his elbow. "What an outrage," his wife murmured to him.  "The person sitting in front of us is sleeping!" the woman said, clearly offended.  Her husband was fairly annoyed.  He replied: "You woke me up to tell me that?"

----------------------------------



Al's Doggy World

Meanings::
Kelly's Corner

 IN SPENCERPORT NEW YORK
Al's Art Gallery












Friday, December 13, 2024

A QUIET RELAXING TIME AT HOME ON A COLD WINTER'S DAY

KELLY AS A LITTLE GIRL
Let me start this post off by thanking everyone for their outpouring of feelings regarding Kelly's passing this past Tuesday.  All the sincere words of support and encouragement, all the wonderful things said about Kelly and the Bayfield Bunch as a whole are sincerely moving.  All the best wishes, the prayers, the heartfelt emotions, the offers of assistance, the uplifting words, and the continuous support.  It has been so encouraging and nice to hear from so many folks near and far.

 KELLY IN THE MIDDLE WITH BROTHER PETER AND SISTER REBECCA (BECKY)
Next, I want to assure readers that I am doing okay.  I cherish this quiet time by myself and it is my way of healing.  Being around or with people now would only make me uncomfortable.  I have been here before and lost loved ones close to me in similar situations (separations) and I know the healing process that will work best for me.  Everyone has their own way of dealing with things.  There are no right or wrong ways, only individual ways that work best for each one of us. I know what I have to do to come out the other side of this sadness into the sunshine.  I have my tears and I have my smiles but above all I have my memories which I hold close.  I am comforted in the belief that Kelly has not only moved on but she has gone home to where we will all one day return.  She is at last free of all the pain and suffering she has so stoically endured these last years.  Her presence remains around me and she has already shown me that she is here with Pheebs and I even as I write this.  

I have decided to include another feature in my blog called 'Kelly's Corner' where I will continue to show a random collection of the many photos I have of her life and times.  The photos will continuously show what a lovely person in all aspects of life she truly was.

 YUP, THAT'S KELLY IN THE BACK ROW STANDING BESIDE HER MOTHER...SISTER KATHY BOTTOM RIGHT
I am into my third week of still dealing with a nasty and persistent head and chest cold so I am avoiding being around people.  I slipped into Bayfield Thursday morning for a haircut on a brutally cold wind-driven morning.  I forgot to wear a hat (but yes I did wear a mask) and when I left the barbershop with my closely cropped military haircut I nearly froze my head off.  I think that just may have driven this cold of mine deeper.  I'm not too smart sometimes you know.

 AT HURON HOSPICE TUESDAY AFTERNOON
With our morning temperature under overcast skies sitting at 17F it was a struggle to convince myself to slip outside, warm up the car, and take Pheebs for a spin through our bleak-looking Siberian landscape this morning.  I had zero interest or ambition in trying to find any stimulating photos and besides, there were snowflakes in the air.  Therefore, Subie never moved, and nor did Pheebs and I.

I have a huge task here ahead of me at the house and I am not, yet I am, looking forward to reorganizing most everything.  When on my own I have been known to run a tight ship and I do not like clutter.  So, I have my work cut out for me and in the coming weeks and months, I shall be keeping myself busy plugging away at this daunting and almost overwhelming task.  

I like these words a friend sent me....{Quote} Remember... When life breaks you, it means you're being prepared to be put back together in a new way. Every piece of you that feels broken will find a new place, a new purpose, and a new meaning. Trust that the cracks are where the light gets in. And sometimes, in our brokenness, we find our greatest wholeness. We find the courage to rebuild, to rethink, and to redefine what it means to be strong in a whole new way. You are not broken; you are paving the way.

Al's Music Box;)) The Shadow Of Your Smile also known as "Love Theme from The Sandpiper", sung by Andy Williams. The music was written by Johnny Mandel with the lyrics written by Paul Francis Webster. The song was introduced in the 1965 film The Sandpiper, with a trumpet solo by Jack Sheldon and later became a minor hit for Tony Bennett (Johnny Mandel arranged and conducted this version as well). It won the Grammy Award for Song of the Year and the Academy Award for Best Original Song.  In 2004, the song finished at number 77 in AFI's 100 Years...100 Songs poll of the top tunes in American cinema.

GROANER'S CORNER:(( Late one night at the insane asylum, one inmate shouted, "I am Napoleon!"  Another patient asked, "How do you know?"  The first inmate said, "Because God told me!"  Just then, a voice from another room shouted, "I did NOT!"

-----------------------------------

"Are you an actress, auntie?"
"No darling, why do you ask?"
"Because Daddy says whenever you come over, we always have a big scene."

-----------------------------------

A father is explaining ethics to his son, who is about to go into business..."Suppose a woman comes in and orders a hundred dollars worth of material. You wrap it up, and you give it to her. She pays you with a $100 bill. But as she goes out the door you realize she's given you two $100 bills. Now, here's where the ethics come in: should you or should you not tell your partner?

--------------------------------------

Police Quotes....“The handcuffs are tight because they're new. They'll stretch out after you wear them awhile.”

“If you run, you'll only go to jail tired.”

- “So, you don't know how fast you were going. I guess that means I can write anything I want on the ticket, huh?”

- “Warning! You want a warning? O.K., I'm warning you not to do that again or I'll give you another ticket.”

- “The answer to this last question will determine whether you are drunk or not. Was Mickey Mouse a cat or dog?”

- “Yeah, we have a quota. Two more tickets and my wife gets a toaster oven.”

- “Life's tough, it's tougher if you're stupid.”

- “No sir, we don't have quotas anymore. We used to have quotas, but now we're allowed to write as many tickets as we want.”

- “Just how big were those two beers?

---------------------------------

Al's Doggy World

Meanings::


Kelly's Corner
OH HOW WE LOVED BOONDOCKING IN THE DESERT

 A MORNING DESERT WALK NEAR OUR HOUSE IN CONGRESS ARIZONA
 WITH HER BROTHER-IN-LAW NORM
 AT HER MOM'S HOUSE IN SPENCERPORT NEW YORK
Al's Art Gallery













Wednesday, December 11, 2024

WINTERTIME AND TRAVELIN' ON

I didn't feel up to writing anything today but I will leave you with a couple of songs this evening from Hagood Hardy.  Wintertime and Travelin' On.  These songs remind me of Kelly and our life together.  I'm hoping to be back into blog mode in a few days.

Tuesday, December 10, 2024

KELLY PASSED AWAY PEACEFULLY TODAY

Kelly, with her daughter Sabra, son Ben, and myself by her side, slipped peacefully away at 12:35 p.m. today.  I'm exhausted and short of words tonight but I will leave you all with our favorite song from the first day Kelly and I met back in the summer of 1993......It's Neil Young's Harvest Moon