Thursday, March 21, 2024

A BLOG READER'S COMMENT

 DESPITE ANOTHER GRAY MORNING, I WAS ABLE TO FIND SOME MORE COLOR IN OUR PARK
Only 23F when we got up this morning.  I was glad I had put out extra birdseed the night before.  The little guys were gonna need some extra fuel to warm themselves up.

Despite the cold morning Pheebs and I did make it out for a spin around the Park and managed to find a few more pics along the way.

 HEY, ISN'T THAT ABE LINCOLN'S BIRDHOUSE

 PATIENTLY WAITING FOR WARMER SPRING WEATHER
 NOPE, IT'S NOT A TULIP
Kelly headed off to Goderich today to pick up a few groceries and a prescription at Walmart.  With it being so cold outside I had no interest in setting foot outside the door.  Mentally and physically my mind and body do not function well in cold weather anymore.  And, that's okay by me.  Happy to say we ended our day under big blue sunny skies:))))))   

 I NOTICED A SLIGHT MOVEMENT AT THE FAR END OF THE PARK'S POND
 DUCKS
I've decided to include an interesting blog comment from a fellow named Johnny Blogger.  Kelly came across his comment a few days ago on my March 15th post.  He touches not only on the recent passing of RV Blogger and friend John Brown, but other folks we here in the blogging community are or were familiar with over these past RVing years.  I like what Johnny Blogger had to say about our RV community, and how he caringly said it.  Here then I share with readers, Johnny Blogger's comment.........."It is always saddening when one we proverbially “broke bread,” with passes. Particularly when they too were a part of one’s RVing tribe. My condolences to the family and to you too Mr. and Mrs. Bayfield. He was one of the many that you met and appreciated on your journeys. And on the loss of our blogger “friends.”  I have followed several RV bloggers over the past decade. Some just disappear without notice. Jimbo of Jimbos Journeys being one. Yes, Jimbo had stopped RVing and he had kept up a bit writing about his new “little House” in Oregon, the loss of his dog Chica, and most recently a trip to England. Then gone.  Other RV Bloggers like RV Sue and her Canine Crew do publish that their RVing days are over. In her case, she had bought a sticks and bricks in a part of AZ that she loved. In 2021 Sue wrote to us that she was taking a break. Although Sue was very happy with her new home and those new home projects that go along with the staked down life.  As I ascertained from some of her last posts, she has never returned. I cherished the interspersed vignettes of her two little dogs Roger and Reggie.  Some bloggers who leave us are not RV’ers at all.  Some travel differently, more arduously. In fact, it was Mr. Bayfield who introduced me to a blog by Ara titled Oasis of my Soul. It was a deep blog encompassing the reflections of a man tormented by the loss of his adult son. This native Frenchman sold everything and left his SW Texas abode embarking on a decade plus unplanned, journey for a rediscovery of his soul after the sad events struck him. Life was not “normal,” anymore. He and his rescue dog Spirit traveled side by side…on his side-by-side motorcycle. Traveling through all kinds of weather, bright and frightening.  He tented. He slept on the ground and he mostly cooked by campfire. Ara’s last post although I’m not defining it as a last post as don’t know-, wasn’t a goodbye, In it he states “it is what it is.” Who knows, he may return, however his last post was enough for me to understand a new journey has begun. Ara is comfortable and at the end of the last journey: 74 and counting...(  Within the last several years I/we “lost” 2 other non-RV bloggers of note. Bloggers I have missed more than I think I would have missed people I know. John Wells of The Field Lab blog left us. He left us as he lived and blogged: Writing and Vlogging about projects. Dying was just another project. He shared what he could with the time he had. Over the past several years I watched and read of all his projects as he, after leaving NYC, turned a barren shingle of Texas high desert into a homestead for himself and the animals he loved. He left us with no real goodbyes. Well, beside a stark photo of him displaying a 2 fingered peace sign, this I suppose: “In case things go wrong tomorrow...Thanks for following along with The Field Lab journey.  This goodbye was followed by only several short posts on the logistics, the planning, and the execution of his death after his out-of-the-blue cancer diagnosis.  It is titled On to a New Adventure.  And finally, some bloggers who know and give us what they can to say goodbye. Gerald was a professional writer before retired to his childhood home in the foothills of the Sierras. He had traveled the world and spent much of his life in the professional creative circles in NYC and LA.  He returned home and reflected on life and his life. He too went unexpectedly. Fortunately, he had a good friend post for him while he was hospitalized and afterward when he was bedridden right before he died. He left us with one of his published essays from the early aughts. The next to last post is a link with lyrics to an Avett Brothers song “Further Down the Line”.  My name, “Gerard Van der Leun,” from The Name in Stone is his last post.  His second to last was this Avett Brothers song No Hard Feelings....

“When my body won’t hold me anymore
And it finally lets me free
Will I be ready?
When my feet won’t walk another mile
And my lips give their last kiss goodbye
Will my hands be steady when I lay down my fears, my hopes, and my doubts?
The rings on my fingers, and the keys to my house.  With no hard feelings”

Here's to John Brown the RV-traveling cowboy blogger and here’s to all the other bloggers who might not know that somewhere, somehow you touch someone be it in Spirit or Flesh.  And, thank you Mr. Bayfield for the tribute and for passing this other loss on with your reflections and on being to some extent a repository, a digest for the RV life and those who live or have lived it".

Al's Music Box:)) There Goes My Baby is a song written by Ben E. King (Benjamin Earl Nelson), Lover Patterson, George Treadwell, and produced by Jerry Leiber and Mike Stoller for The Drifters.  This was the first single by the second incarnation of the Drifters (previously known as the 5 Crowns), who assumed the group name in 1958 after manager George Treadwell fired the remaining members of the original lineup. The Atlantic Records release was Ben E. King's debut recording as the lead singer of the group.  The lyrics are loosely structured, almost free-form at a time when rhyming lines were mandatory. The accompaniment features a violin section playing saxophone-like riffs in rock and roll style. The lead voice is in high gospel style.

GROANER'S CORNER:(( The Best Norm Quotes from Cheers::

'What's shaking Norm?''  All four cheeks & a couple of chins.'

'What's new Normie?''  Terrorists, Sam. They've taken over my stomach & they're demanding beer.'

'What'd you like Normie?'
'A reason to live. Give me another beer.'

'What'll you have Normie?'
'Well, I'm in a gambling mood Sammy, I'll take a glass of whatever comes out of that tap.'  'Looks like beer, Norm.'  'Call me Mister Lucky.'

'Hey Norm, how's the world been treating you?'  'Like a baby treats a diaper.'

'What's the story Mr. Peterson?'  'The Bobbsey twins go to the brewery. Let's cut to the happy ending.'

'Hey Mr. Peterson, there's a cold one waiting for you.'  'I know; if she calls, I'm not here.'

'Beer, Norm?'  'Have I gotten that predictable? Good.'

'What's going on Mr. Peterson?'  'A flashing sign in my gut that says, 'Insert beer here.''

'Whatcha up to Norm?'  'My ideal weight if I were eleven feet tall.'

'How's it going Mr. Peterson?'  'Poor.'  'I'm sorry to hear that.'  'No, I mean POUR!'

'How's life treating you Norm?'  'Like it caught me sleeping with its wife.'

'Women. Can't live with 'em....pass the beer-nuts.'

'What's going down, Normie?'  'My butt cheeks on that bar stool.'

'Pour you a beer, Mr. Peterson?'
'Alright, but stop me at one....make that one-thirty.'

'How's it going Mr. Peterson?'  'It's a dog eat dog world, Woody & I'm wearing Milk Bone underwear.'

'What's the story Norm?'  'Boy meets beer. Boy drinks beer. Boy meets another beer.'

'What's going on Mr. Peterson?'  'The question is what's going IN, Mr. Peterson?
'A beer please, Woody.'

'Can I pour you a beer Mr. Peterson?'  'A little early isn't it, Woody?'  'For a beer?'
'No. For a stupid question.'
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13 comments:

  1. Thanks Kelly for showing Al Johnny's comment,and Al thanks for publishing it
    I followed & commented
    on most of those blogs,also on Tioga George's.We all share a lot with each other,what a treasure!Nice to know the birds weren't forgotten by you,,Al,that birdseed is helping them survive this cold, sweet! -Mary

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  2. Wonderful tribute to RV bloggers that have disappeared from the platform. RV Sue in particular is one I really miss. Would just like to know she is doing ok but I know it is her right to pull away. Thankful you are still with us and still writing! Another wonderful blogger who is no longer RVing now writes “Embrace Serendipity”. I highly recommend it. Can’t remember what his old blog was called.

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  3. I, too, appreciate the tribute to bloggers. I don't blog, but, believe me, those who do have played an enormous, very much appreciated, part in my life. Tioga George was such a dear. Gave me many laughs and, alas! many tears. I come across memories of him in my head frequently. Remember Rod Ivers and his love of motorcycles. He will always be famous for the Rumba story. Yes, RV Sue. Wish she hadn't left us hanging. Mike and Pat McFall were friends with the Bayfield Bunch in AZ. Judy, the birdlady. Remember her dog Emma ate a special stone, and she was able to get it back? . She was such a wonderful example of humanity. As are so many bloggers. Thanks to all of you for making my life so much richer. A lost blogger friend is to me, a lost family member. An empty place.......

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  4. Yes. I've followed quite a few blogs for at least 10 years, some close to 20. Something happens when they disappear, even when there's been a bit of warning.
    With a photoblogger who writes as well, there's a certain sort of relationship established, whether you communicate directly or not. It's a loss when they are no longer there.

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  5. I too remember following a few blogs the authors forewarned their readers of their upcoming demise. One such author had her brother post her obituary afterwards. The Comments continued to pile up, until the Blog was shut down after a month.
    Be Safe!

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  6. A very touching and interesting blog tonight. I really enjoyed it and it brought many good thoughts to mind.
    And I appreciated the picture and message of the little pup too. Brought a tear to my eye. Thank you.
    Don in Okla.

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  7. Al and Kelly, thanks so much for sharing Johnny Blogger's post. Truly a tribute to so many that have disappeared from blogging and are missed. Once again, your photos of the birds are amazing.

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  8. Thanks for the wonderful thought-provoking post

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  9. What an amazing tribute to both the living and the departed! Thank you Mr. Johnny for summing up our thoughts with your words. A very accurate tribute to you as well Al. Thanks for sharing.

    Deb

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  10. Thanks for sharing the comment, it reaches deep.

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  11. That's for the post about bloggers. It was a good tribute to bloggers. I too have several that I miss after reading them for years. I wrote a lot more in this comment but deleted it, words just can't express how we are affected by some blogs and of course how we affect others with our blogs. I'm reminded of an old poem from when online chat rooms were popular. The title was Friends without Faces. I won't type it out here, you can look it up if you're curious. Good luck. Ya'll take care of each other.

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